I am happy to admit that I have never stolen anything, unless you count drinks at restaurants (filling the clear water cups with soda instead). Then in that case, I have shoplifted a few times. But besides that I am very proud to admit I have never been tempted with the notion to take anything illegally.
However, I remember 12 years ago when someone stole from me. In 1st grade, my teacher would hand out stickers for our homework. She would give us the loose kinds instead of putting them on our paper, so we were free stick it wherever our hearts desired. One day, I received the most patriotic sticker my 1st grade eyes had ever seen. It was a one inch by one inch American flag that had a slight ripple in it that made it come to life and flap in the wind as I raced back to my desk.
"The placement possibilities are endless!" I thought, "Literally anywhere I put this would label me as the smartest and most loyal citizen in this country."After seconds of my indecisiveness, I finally found the perfect place; right on my name tag. I leaned over my desk and placed it right beside my name. I was so proud.
Now fast forward a few days, and I noticed the girl catty-corner to me had the same sticker. On her name tag too! "Impostor," I thought, "Nobody before me conceived that idea." But when I looked over my desk to check on my flag, It was gone! My blood boiled and I wanted to wage war with this thief. I asked her where she got it, and she fluttered her words into some incoherent sentence under toned with guilt and shame knowing full well she had stolen the prize I had worked so hard for. I would have called her out, except my teacher started class, and all I could do was sit and watch as my flag, my work, my reward was sticking next to the name of some lazy child who did not even bat an eye when she stole my sticker.
All this to say, I believe it is crucial to cite your sources. Someone else who mostly likely spent a much greater amount of time researching, perusing, and thinking about their words, published that and they expect full credit for their labor. Just like myself, I had worked really hard to earn that sticker and to see someone else take full credit for my handwork has stuck with my for life. I am not saying that stealing someone else's work is like asking them to hold a grudge, but you did not work as hard as they did and taking it without paying your respect is essentially stealing. What if they were to stumble upon your essay and noticed your words were strikingly similar to theirs? Situation A: they notice you rightfully cited their work, gave them credit, then go about their business with a high respect for you or situation B: they notice your words match theirs, paraphrased or not, realize you did not cite their work, contact you or notify your school, and lose a whole lot of respect for you.
Either case is possible give or take certain ramifications, but there is one that will help you go a lot further in life and will help you earn the respect of those before you if you avoid plagiarism, stealing, and slacking at all costs.